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my gf jus told me that she is wicca and that she does alot of magik. I am fascinated by magik and hav dabbled wit it but i would like to know more about it so i can understand what she does and maybe help her when shes working. She said that somehow she is drawn to me because i hav a calmin aura help please. <br/>I just need to know how to help her <br/>and to learn how to understand her ways x
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hi i have a gf that dosent kno that i am a witch i love her and dont want to loose her can i ask how you gf told you so i could get an idea, thanks in advance.<br/><br/>your problem is that you have dabbled you need to read on a specific subject work on it and expand it may be that you wont be ably to help her but her help you but i would suggest staring with one thing instead of five at a time.<br/>Hope This Helps<br/>Blessed Be<br/>Scott
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welll she started talkin about religion and askin me what i believe in i then said i dont really believe in anything. She then asked me if i believe in magik. I said yes cus I do. She then asked me do you know what wicca is I said no she then said well I am wiccan. Its the belief of goddesses and gods and using thr elements to help you. I was so shocked when she told me I didnt think it of her I just thought she knew alot about magik and maybe was just really clever in re. Was so weird but now I think maybe i should be wiccan too cus we are the same and loads of weird things have happened like sometimes things turn on by themselves and that coicedentaly wit our song.
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I've made it pretty clear that I'm Wiccan, and I have only had one person who was completely against it and said some really nasty things to me. He was supposed to be my friend, and he said he wanted to protect me, but he was a strict Christian (I thought the Christian thing to do was to be tolerant and to listen to what I had to say), he went on about the Devil and all sorts...even compared me to a terrorist. I explained to him about what I believe but he just wouldn't listen to me. Everyone else that knows, are actually quite fascinated with it. Which makes me happy. =) I think some people think that I can't be really Wiccan because I don't wear black clothes all the time, and I don't have piercings or tattoos...why do some people think that you have to look a certain way to believe in something? =S Strange. <br/> I read somewhere, that Wicca is the second biggest religion in the US at the moment...I don't know if that's completely right or not. I don't know about how big it is over here in the UK but I'm sure it's growing. I think if you're going to tell someone that you're Wiccan, it'll be ok and if they love you and respect you, they won't go off the handle and accuse you of things (like what happened to me) and they will hopefully want to find out more about it. =) Good luck! Blessed Be x
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I just told my boyfriend after goin out for 8months and he fyn wit it <br/>he believes in magik and is tryin to find out bout it <br/>he undastands y i dont tell every1 because ppl associate it wit the devil but he didnt <br/>and if they truly love you then they'l here you out wont they <br/>love and light xx<br/>xxblossomxx
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thanks you have helped i will wait till i havebeen goin out with my gf a bit longer thanks again.<br/>Blessed Be<br/>Scott
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GeminiGirl can i ask where in the uk you live, because in feeling very lonely down here in cardiff.<br/><br/><br/>I told my bf not long go that i was wiccan and he seemed great with it hes even sat with me and let me put a protection spell on him he loves playing around with my crystals he's abit strange like that lol i think if your gf if the same as me she would just like your company when he is preforming a ritual or spell blessed be x
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Scott - unless you really think your gf isn't going to take the news well, just tell her gently. My bf knew before we started dating, and he seems really supportive of my beliefs and everything, so if you think it's for the best, go for it! <br/><br/>I agree with Scott in that you need to read up on one specific area of Wicca, and if your really interested, why not start meditating after a while, or even meditate with your gf? It will help you become more focused with magick and will help you to help her more. I know that if my bf was trying to fit in, i would be so grateful and love him so much for it. <br/>Bright blessings,<br/><br/>Naomi xx<br/>
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My OH is very supportive, he is a scientist type person, doesn't believe in god(s)/Godesses, afterlife etc etc BUT he does support me fully in my beliefs and goes to our local Wiccan shop to buy me prezzies :o)
He is interested in it, likes to understand the beliefs and the history of it all, he even likes to have card readings.
I do believe that if the subject is discussed gently and you partner is the one you are meant to be with, it will be received well, maybe not straight away but given a little more knowledge I have found most people to be at the very least understanding and very often really quite interested.
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