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hi all, where do i begin! im 26 and a mum of three. last year i lost all my friends for no reason or fault of my own i just discovered that they werent true friends. I was really upset by all of this but triend to stay positive.<br/> I live with my partner and three kids almost 200 miles away from my mum. The only close relative i had was my auntie, who used to babysit for an hour or so to give me and my partner a break. Then my oldest told me that my auntie had been smacking my 18 month old daughter. i was deverstated in confronted my auntie about this and she completely denied it. I knew it was true though i just sensed something was wrong and my son got really upset when my auntie tried to make out my son was lieing.<br/> all of this has taken its toll on me, im on medication form my GP i see a counciller. im so down in the dumps and low as i have no friends or relatives. everyone has seemed to turn against me for no reason. Im a kind person who always thinks of others in fact i always put friends and family before my self. i really cant understand whats going on.<br/> NOW this year ive just found out that my son is having difficulty at school and when i go to pick him up the other mums in the playground give me evil looks and blank me as if im scum.<br/> I really dont know where to turn it seems if im cursed or going mad <br/>can anyone please help me with any advice etc. <br/>ive been reading a lot about paganism wicca and trying to learn the tarot, but my concentration at the moment is so rubbish i cant atke much in...<br/> BLESSED BE TO ALL LOVE AND LIGHT M.
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Hi, I'm so sorry to hear your going through the mill at the mo as much as it pains me to say things will get better. Have you tried to look at the positive side to all this you have lost your friends who you have come to realise weren't truly friends that in my book is a blessing at least you are not surrounded by dishonestly and deceit this time on your own gives you time to reflect on what and who you want in your life. I feel you are very sensitive at the mo and finding out your aunt smacked your child has obviously tipped you over the edge. She denied it could she actually be telling the truth some time kids tend to bend the truth especially when they have done something they shouldnt have done and they cant face you finding out keep an open mind. As much as we love are children they are not little angels how does the 18mth old react to your aunt.... Your son i would say is reacting to you kids pick up on our moods no matter how much we try to hide them and who's to say that this buissiness with your aunt isn't effecting him. All kids go through things some kids just dont know how to express themselves properly so they act out in a negative way( im talking from experience i went throught it with my youngest). As for the parents f*** them what does there opinion matter you dont socialise with them and most of them have deep dark secrets and to make them feel better they put others down, i think as you are so sensitive you could be slightly exaggerating what you think they are doing and feeling. Whilst you are on medication may i suggest you just read up and not practice, you need to work on yourself a little self healing would do you the world of good. I have been in your position. Hope this helps. Take care you can do.<br/>Blessed be,<br/>teresa x
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Hello sweetheart, I lost all of my friends in one fell swoop as well - i stuck up for a girl they were being rude towards and before i knew it - they were being nasty to me - i dont regret not being friends with them now - i see them for who they are, petty minded individuals who were so selfish, they didnt care about me or my life - they didnt even know what job i had and i had been friends with them for 10 years!<br/>I would agree with theresa - as a tarot enthusiast myself - it is best not to practice with the cards as you can embed your low mood and energy in to the cards. <br/>I would suggest writing down all the bad things that are happening in your life at the moment and include how you want them to change - make this list as full as it needs to be, then i would write a list of the good things that are in your life at the moment - this second list needs to be as long as you can make it - write everything good down! Then write a third list of things you want to do in your life - like read tarot etc. then keep the list of good things beside your bed and read it to yourself on waking in the morning and before going to bed. Chose one item on the list and make a plan to do it within a certain time frame, then put the list of things you want to do in an envelope - dont seal it - and put it somewhere safe. Then take the list of negative things, pick one item from the list and make a plan to do something about it within a certain time frame e.g. if you dont like your hairstyle - make a plan to change it within the next week and stick to it (silly example i know :S), put that negative list in an envelope and put it somewhere safe. Once you have done something about the negative item - cross it off the list! Once you have done one of the things you want to do in your life - cross it off the list and keep something to remember the item by e.g. if it was tarot - keep a copy of the first ever reading you did for another person. I am not a psychologist and this is only advice i am giving as it is what helped me through a low point, i hope it helps in someway :)<br/><br/>Love and light<br/>Blessed be<br/>wiccandelight<br/>
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