You need to discover your spirit guides. Chill out on your own, or with a trusted friend, I prefur to do this on my own, light a big white candle, begin to meditate, all you have to do is ask for them to come to you, you will need a pen and paper to write anything that comes to you, ask questions (out load or not, its up to you), in my experience they can tell you things that you want to know. I hope this helps you out. You might find that you have more than one. I have one, yet my sister has many. Just chill and get into the zone, if that makes any sense. Also JD